父親的愛

傳統上父親節比母親節較少人重視，因為我們覺得母愛比父愛偉大得多，母親對子女所付出的比父親所付出的多千百倍！這也許是事實，但我們也不能因為這些原因而忽略父親對我們的愛。也許我們覺得父親對我們所做的並不多，但我們能夠對父親為我們所付出的而感謝他嗎？當父親辛勤地工作，我們有沒有多謝他為著家人能有舒適的生活而這麼勞碌？當父親為家中的困難四出想辦法時，我們有沒有多謝他為家人遮風擋雨？當父親悉心安排一家人的旅程，我們有沒有多謝他給家人一個歡樂的旅遊？當父親盡量安排多與子女一起，我們有沒有多謝他陪伴我們一起的日子？或者大多數的父親都是把對子女的愛藏在心中，很少會從言語上表達的他的愛。但他們會從其他行動上對子女表達他的關懷和對他們的愛，只要我們能細意觀察，必定能發現得到！但願我們都能藉著父親節衷心向父親表示感謝他對我們的愛和向他表示我們對他的愛！願大家能有一個愉快的父親節！

Options

I still don't know what made SaSa crying over the last 10 days when I left the school, but I learned that I had choices to deal with it. I could choose to force her to get in my way or I could choose to follow her pace. I chose the later one as I'd learned a lesson from choosing the former one. Yes, I was frustrated while seeing her whining even though I tried my best to make her feel better and everything would be fine. I held my breath and reminded myself not to explode but be patient to her, and she's getting better little by little and it took over 10 days for her to back to normal. I am sure if I just had one time explosion, thing would get worse and who knows how long would it take to make thing get better!

From this experience I learned that sometimes we really don't know why things happened in our life, but we need to embrace the unknown as it's part of our life and still believe that we have options. Of course, we'd better choose a good one. However, although we choose a good option, we might still have struggles or bad feelings during the process, but hang in there and eventually you will see the light at the end of the tunnel.