Not under control
Last Friday was my birthday and my husband and I had planned how to celebrate my birthday. On Friday morning, however, my daughter did not drink her milk well, so I got very frustrated. I told my husband that I did not want to do anything now as my daughter had ruined everything. Later, my husband tried to calm me and said let's go out and don't waste such a beautiful day. So that we went out as we had planned. We had a wonderful time.
I learned that most of the time not other people ruined my mood, but myself. It's me who feel things not under my control or out of my hand, so I blow up. It's me who need to learn how to adjust my perception and control my emotion, otherwise, I will be controlled by eternal factors which damage my internal peace.
posted by loklok @ 12:31 PM
3 Comments:
Hey loklok,
Totally agree with you. I somtimes have the same problem as you. Sometimes my anger emotion comes too fast that I couldn't control it. I think both of us have to learn to be more patient to our family.
ah sa is giving u a surprise on your birthday ma... n she's probably jealous that daddy paid more attention to mommy on that day... heehee...
Elisha surprised me by not surprise me, ha! She is daddy's girl, so no matter what day is, her daddy pay more attention to her than anyone else, ah!
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