My life, My thought

It is my pleasure to know you in my life, so I want to share my thought with you to let you know who I really am.

Monday, April 09, 2007

發脾氣


女女越來越會發脾氣,一不滿意或不高興便會"dum" 嘢,掃嘢,大嗌!加上佢瞪大眼睛,你可以肯定佢真係好唔happy!作為媽媽嘅我當然唔鼓勵佢呢個行為,所以會對佢話唔可以咁樣(行為不當)!跟住我會攬住佢,錫佢,等佢可以calm down(明白佢感受)!但其實我都幾羨慕佢可以咁放膽,咁正接表達自己嘅不滿。大人會因為唔同嘅原因而隱藏自己嘅感受,特別係唔開心,唔滿意等負面嘅情緒。我哋會用唔同方法去 遮掩呢啲情緒,因為怕人話自己太負面,唔成熟,太諗埋一面....等等嘅批評。已經唔開心,再比人咁講,即係自己送上門比人"dum"一腳,攞嚟衰!於是我哋唔再表達真我嘅一面,而係變成皮笑肉笑心不笑嘅人!可悲!

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