睇戲

已經好耐無睇DVD，因為要餵奶嘅原故，我買定DVD等我餵奶時可以睇。我會揀comedy， love story，或者talk show睇，因為可以輕鬆吓，開心吓。如果係較heavy嘅戲，就算知佢係拍得好好，我都未必會去睇。因為我好易會投入落套戲，唔想感覺咁heavy。而且現實生活已經有好多事會令人唔開心，只要睇吓新聞都已經可以令人有不安嘅感覺。太深嘅戲我又唔想花時間去諗，因為現實生活已經有好多事要花精神時間去思考同處理。所以我寧願用啲時間比自己可以有機會笑吓，因為現實生活已經無好多事可以開懷大笑，能夠比自己去開心都可以係一種善待自己嘅方法。

Unfair

Harmony is doing pretty well in eating, sleeping and pooing! I always say, "She does her job very well!!" Sometimes, she cried a bit and then stopped when she was being held, then grandma would say "She is fussy and bad now." I would respond, "She's not bad but somehow she feels uncomfortable or something's bothering her but we don't know what it is." I feel frustrated and sorry for Harmony as she's only expressing her feelings thru crying as this is the way and the only "language" a baby communicate with other people. However, because of the adults not understand her, then they automatically label her or perceive her behave badly! So unfair! Why don't we put ourselves in her shoes and do our best to attune with her! No wonder a lot of children complaining their parents not understand them because they never in a mode to attune with them but only "knowing them thru their own lens or bias". No wonder a lot of parents complaining their children not telling them their matters because the children do not believe their parents will listen to them as they never did since they were baby!

經歷神

七月二日我第二個女兒出世了！懷孕期間已經經歷了神奇妙的恩典和帶領，在生產過程中，我同樣大大經歷神的保守和祝福！大部份人包括醫生和護士都告訴我，第二胎的生產時間會很快，我也相信如是！果然這次的作動速度比上一次快，所以很快便入醫院了。感謝神！我亦很快便送上私家產房，但比預期中遲遲未能生產！護士觀察我作動的情況，然後對我說出她懷疑寶寶是與我「背對背」，所以作動時間較長。四小時後我才能生產！這四小時的作動時間中，我真的十分痛楚、辛苦和很害怕！我只有集中仰望祈禱求天父幫我保守我和寶寶！如果沒有神，我真的不知道我怎可捱過這四小時！
孕婦生產後，身體可能會有異常的情況出現。感謝神！我並沒有這些情況。有足夠的支持網也會幫助孕婦適應和渡過生產後的挑戰和變化。感謝神！祂賜我一位細心的丈夫，他樂意照顧兩個女兒！我父母和奶奶悉心調理我的身體和陪大女玩耍，使我和丈夫有休息時間。
感謝神！讓我在這九個月裏親身經歷祂的同在，使我體會祂的信實和慈愛！我實實在在的能見證祂如何在我軟弱無力之處顯出祂的大能！「他對我說：我的恩典夠你用的，因為我的能力是在人的軟弱上顯得完全。所以，我更喜歡誇自己的軟弱，好叫基督的能力覆庇我。」(林後十二:9)

比較

悅悅終於出世！有咗兩個女其中嘅的挑戰係點樣去平衡自己面對長輩對兩個女嘅比較！佢哋最常有嘅比較係講邊個可以'食住'邊個；邊個'勝'個邊個‧‧‧等等。佢哋更會'肯定'嘅話悅悅無咁矜貴，因為佢係'亞二'！聽到佢哋咁講，我次次都要忍住唔好發火。唔明點解佢哋要將兩姊妹比較？唔同性格，唔同喜好都可以呀！點解做細無咁矜貴？唔係佢唔矜貴，係大人無好好去令佢哋矜貴！呢個完全係大人嘅問題！小朋友好單純，佢哋會好易相信佢哋聽到嘅嘢！所以我求神比我智慧去幫佢哋唔會受呢啲說話影響佢哋嘅成長，更唔會影響佢兩姊妹嘅感情！