比較
悅悅終於出世!有咗兩個女其中嘅的挑戰係點樣去平衡自己面對長輩對兩個女嘅比較!佢哋最常有嘅比較係講邊個可以'食住'邊個;邊個'勝'個邊個‧‧‧等等。佢哋更會'肯定'嘅話悅悅無咁矜貴,因為佢係'亞二'!聽到佢哋咁講,我次次都要忍住唔好發火。唔明點解佢哋要將兩姊妹比較?唔同性格,唔同喜好都可以呀!點解做細無咁矜貴?唔係佢唔矜貴,係大人無好好去令佢哋矜貴!呢個完全係大人嘅問題!小朋友好單純,佢哋會好易相信佢哋聽到嘅嘢!所以我求神比我智慧去幫佢哋唔會受呢啲說話影響佢哋嘅成長,更唔會影響佢兩姊妹嘅感情!
1 Comments:
yes, be careful...lots of comparisions/comments will be heard (not just from parents but also from others)...I keep reminding our parents not to do it.
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